You have really just got to get the fuck back up when it knocks you down (knocks you down). You should never ever ever let yourself stay in such a gloomy place for such a long time. For Christ's sake, it aint the end of the world so don't act like it is. I just got out of a relationship and this is a wake up call to everyone who's going through a heartbreak or a whatsoever.
It's OKAY TO CRY, okay? It's OKAY to be sad, okay? It's OKAY to be depressed. It's okay if for a few days you'll lock yourself up in your room and just sleep or watch sad films or listen to sad music or just cry the whole day - it's OKAY. But please don't stay there. Or better yet - don't stay there too long.
I know for sure that we all go through different experiences. But a breakup is a breakup. And a heartbreak is a heartbreak. But dear. Dear, you are lovely. Okay? And whatever flaws it is that you may have that could've probably been the reason why someone left you or it's really just because the person who left you has got a brain no bigger than a chicken's - please know that there WILL BE someone out there who's gonna love you - even with all your flaws.
Now I'm not encouraging you to just feel better and "know your worth". I'm gonna tell you to MOVE ON. Get up. And prove to yourself that YOU ARE worthy of love that lasts. Prove yourself that YOU ARE deserving of someone BETTER. Prove yourself that you deserve nothing but the best. Do you know how you're gonna do that? It's by making sure that YOU are the BEST VERSION of YOURSELF. Did you hear me? Do you get me? Was I clear enough?
People oftentimes complain and complain and complain. Heck - complain when you know for sure you've done nothing wrong. Complain when you know for sure when you find yourself at best and you really believe you don't deserve what it is you're receiving. That's when you complain. Complain when you've already thought things through. Complain when you know that this isn't what you even asked for from God. But hey, wait - God doesn't even give you something you can't handle. So what I'm saying is, if you're in a tough situation - it means you're put there to make you a much better person. This situation is supposed to make you stronger, wiser, and better than ever. If God gave you a person who's hard to be with, that person was given to you so you'd be taught how to be more understanding, more patient, more loving. If you were put in a situation wherein nothing else seems to go right, it just means you shouldn't easily give up because you're probably meant to at least do your best to help in making things right. Everything happens for a reason. And for all the negativity that's been raining on you lately - please do remember that you can always - ding ding ding! Excelsior. Use all those negative things - and turn them into something positive. Create something wonderful out of it. And you'll find yourself - happier. You'll find yourself in a position wherein things get easier to overcome.
And now let's go back to love and being broken.
It's okay. Don't tell me that I don't know what it is you're going through - believe me when I tell you I've been through enough heartaches myself. And this aint even just on boyfriend-girlfriend relationships. I've had heartaches from all sorts of situations. Considering I'm a very sensitive person too - I find myself easily affected by things but often enough - not everything that affects me needs to be shown that I'm actually affected. (I don't know if that part was even clear enough hahaha.)
ANYWAYS.
All I really wanted to say is. Things will get better. If you need a hug, go text or call me. I'd be glad enough to talk or meet up with you and hug you myself. It's hard. I know it's hard. I know that it's fucking hard. And there will be days that you think you've actually moved on - but you still haven't. And then you'll find yourself crying yourself to sleep again. That's okay. We've all got phases we need to go through before fully being able to "move on".
Moving on is not just a matter of moving from one place to another. It's actually more of ... finally knowing where you stand - and it's already perfectly fine with you.
Eventually, you'll find that you're completely nothing to him even with just a short span of time - and it wont hurt. I promise. The time will come that it'll just be a "meh" situation. And I think that that's when we've all "moved on".
Remember, hate isn't even the opposite of love. Indifference is. Indifference means not giving even the slightest shit. Hate means you've still got feelings for the person. But when you're already indifferent - you'll just hear his name or someone's gonna tease you or whatever and you'll completely be casual about it or maybe kid around but you'll just - eventually not feel anything more than randomly answering a random question.
So. Yeah. I think you guys get me. And I'll most probably blog another shit about moving on so. I think I should try to sleep now. Hahahaha. But I'm still wide awake. Huhu.
Ok.
Till my next love post. Hahaha
Ciao xx
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