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When You've Got More Than Enough

"Treat your girl right, bro. Plain and simple. 

I know it can be hard to please her sometimes, but it’s worth it in the end. Remember that she’s your happiness, your world. She should be the first person you talk to in the morning, and the last person you whisper “Good night” to. Unlike some of your bros, she’s going to be there for you when you’re the happiest, but more importantly, when you’re at your lowest. She’ll cook for you and care for you, so treat her like a queen. Girls are delicate creatures. Think before you say. Think before you act. They take every little mistake you make and multiply it by a thousand. So try not to mess up, aight? When you’re fighting, sometimes it’s better to put your relationship before your own pride. You’re not helping yourself by making her upset, bro. And never, ever, under any condition, let her go to sleep crying. She’ll resent you for it for the rest of your days. Don’t forget to make her feel special everyday. Open doors, go shopping with her. Hell, make dinner for her! The more you show her you love her, the more she’ll give you in return. Remember that an “I love you” via text is never as special as one in person. And show her off to your bros, don’t be ashamed of her. She’s never been ashamed of your dorky ass. Look, she doesn’t really need much in a relationship; she just wants to feel like she matters to you. That’s not asking for much, bro.

But if you haven’t learned a thing from reading this, remember this. Love her unconditionally, loyally, and keep her close. Love her with everything you’ve got: emotionally, mentally, and physically. Because I swear, if you won’t treat your girl right, someone else definitely will."

I saw this^ on my news feed just this morning. And while reading it, I couldn't help but say that "Hey, that's my guy." And to elaborate on that, I have a response to each line :)

I know it can be hard to please her sometimes, but it’s worth it in the end.

As much as possible, I'm more than sure that John Rae (le boyfriend's name) gives his all like - all the time whenever he'd try to please me. I whine like a kid sometimes and he does his best to keep his cool and get me what I want. He's gonna keep on asking me if I'm already okay - and if not, he's gonna try harder. And pag wala na talaga, he's the one who's gonna start being sad then now I'm the one who's gotta please him. LOL. 

Remember that she’s your happiness, your world.

This one, he never fails to remind me. That I make him happy - the happiest man ever. And though he don't need to say it every minute and every second, I do feel that I AM his world. Though sometimes, it worries me if that's okay...:o :)) 

She should be the first person you talk to in the morning, and the last person you whisper “Good night” to.

The moment we wake up, whoever wakes up first - calls first. We talk for a few minutes, then it's already time to get dressed for school. Talk while on our trip to school. Talk during free time. (We aint schoolmates by the way.) Meet after class. Hang out at home. Talk when he's already on his way home. Talk until we both fall asleep. But on our case, I'm the one who'd more often than not fall asleep first. (Hehe sorry.)

Unlike some of your bros, she’s going to be there for you when you’re the happiest, but more importantly, when you’re at your lowest.

We've been the best of friends ever since. He knows everything - I know everything. May it be good or bad or not so whichever of the two, we know. May it be school, friends, and family matters - we talk about everything. And vice versa - we've always been there for each other. If only I was one free kid - I'd rush to wherever he is at any time of the day just to comfort him but no - I'm a kid who's about to turn 20 in days and all I can do is comfort him through the phone whenever we aint together (no duh). But this guy, whenever I was at my lowest, he never failed to cheer me up. He'd ALWAYS put me first. ;') 

She’ll cook for you and care for you, so treat her like a queen.

True, true. But no need, he does treat me like one. <3333

Girls are delicate creatures. Think before you say. Think before you act. They take every little mistake you make and multiply it by a thousand. So try not to mess up, aight?

Girls ARE very delicate creatures. My hubby has his flaws just like any other earthling in this world. And of course, whenever he fails to think before he talks, and fails to think before he acts - we end up having misunderstandings. But that's normal. And it's fine. And I fail to do so too at times. And just so girls don't know, GUYS ARE FRAGILE TOO. We too must THINK before we speak thus also THINK before we act. And though it wont always show, the mistakes we do - them guys just keep on forgiving us but it don't mean they can't multiply it by a thousand. So don't take em for granted and think that we girls are the only ones who need to be handled well of. Same goes for us. Try not to mess up too, aight?

When you’re fighting, sometimes it’s better to put your relationship before your own pride.

True. Oftentimes, after almost two hours of fighting and I already start crying nonstop then he too starts to cry ... the fight ends when he hugs me real tight and tells me "I'm sorry...I love you." Which then makes me cry harder then he just hugs me tighter then in a while - we're back to the awesome happy couple that we are taking turns at playing tetris then cheers for the one playing. (Oh aren't we just perfect for each other <3) 

You’re not helping yourself by making her upset, bro.

He feels bad whenever I'm upset and he's the cause of it. So, this statement sorta doesn't apply to me hubby. Because no - he never meant to hurt me intentionally so no - he doesn't think he's helping himself by upsetting me. 

And never, ever, under any condition, let her go to sleep crying. She’ll resent you for it for the rest of your days.

We have never gone to sleep without being okay - NEVER. And this has been going on for nearly 8 months now. We'll stay up until the fight's over and everything's clear already - no matter what time it's gonna take us to finally get some shut eye. 

Don’t forget to make her feel special everyday. Open doors, go shopping with her. Hell, make dinner for her!

He does make me feel special everyday. <3 :) He still opens the doors for me, would get me water at mealtime, does go shopping with me (heck even window shopping, he doesn't mind) and - he made breakfast for me:) Traveled earlier than usual to my place, brought his ingredients and prepared (a little bit late) breakfast for me. :) Cheese omelet :) (though simple to do, I appreciated the effort and I swear that it's the yummiest cheese omelet ever :) ) 

The more you show her you love her, the more she’ll give you in return.

True. 

Remember that an “I love you” via text is never as special as one in person.

We're always together. And hearing "I love you" was never a problem since I hear it ... all day long. ;) 

And show her off to your bros, don’t be ashamed of her. She’s never been ashamed of your dorky ass.

I don't think he's ashamed of me. I just think there's never been a chance wherein he could actually show me off or so since he and his bros meet at night and stuff. But I have heard that he does tell some of his friends about us and that his friends are actually happy for him. (d'awww) Heck yes - I've never been ashamed of him. \m/ 

Look, she doesn’t really need much in a relationship; she just wants to feel like she matters to you. That’s not asking for much, bro.

True and DEFINITELY TRUE. (But I think I'm given more than enough) 

But if you haven’t learned a thing from reading this, remember this. Love her unconditionally, loyally, and keep her close.

What's there to learn .. ? He DOES love me unconditionally and yes I believe so - loyally. And .. I think my man had kept me ... a little bit too close. HAHA. He's waaaay too selfish. Somewhat a good thing ... but then at times not so. Pero keri lang. Lol. :) 

Love her with everything you’ve got: emotionally, mentally, and physically.

He does. ;') And as one of my favorite sayings would go "Just because he doesn't love you the way you want him to - already means he doesn't love you with all that he's got." 

Because I swear, if you won’t treat your girl right, someone else definitely will.

He knows. ;) Diba, Babe?;) Hahaha. 

Sorry for the long post. Dint mean to brag tho. But really, if you had a guy like mine - wouldn't you brag about him too?;)

Till my next post:)

Ciao!

Shamooney

I've always loved writing. Since I was a kid, I've been making up stories and writing them down in my notebooks. Fortunately, I got a hold of one just last year I think .. and my story sounded so tragic. Somewhat a two to three page story about a pilot and his family. Then in the end, the plane crashed. Can't remember though if when it crashed, the family was there too.


Basta. Tragic ending.


Anyways. Will not spend free time updating my blog with stories I have been wanting to post. :)


Ciao:)

New Year - A Chance for a Better Life :)

There's this song from the movie Serendipity that I've always loved. Hearing the song itself or just hearing it in my mind ... lightens up how I feel. ;) I've always loved listening to love songs. Well - even watching romantic movies is something I really love doing. I dunno. There's this thing about love that really just makes me feel so positive about so many things. <3 :) And this year - it won't only be a LIGHT HEARTED POSITIVE ONE but it will also be filled with much much more LOVE. ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ 

And for my first entry this 2012 - dundundun~ to have a pretty organized blog this time, I'm gonna start it off with my new year's resolution and maybe just blog again some other time:) G? G! :)

My boyfriend and I made this New Year's Resolution list on the 23rd of December 2011. :) He's got his own, and I've got mine. But uhh~ I'm just gonna post mine coz I still aint sure if he'd want his to be seen in public or so. Hmm. Here it goes :)

1. PRAY FIRST THING IN THE MORNING. Last year, I've been too busy for God Himself - and that can't ever be something acceptable. So this year, I super promise to always put Him first. :)

2. NOT LEAVE MY BED MESSED UP. On the first day of classes - I failed because I got up late and really had to rush to school so yeah. But promise again that this time, I'm really gonna fix my bed first before I leave or better yet, the moment I get up. :)

3. LESSEN MY CRAMMING. I do know for myself that I'm often better when I cram. My thoughts tend to be fast-flowing, and so does ideas and such. Much more creativity works for me when I am under time pressure. But, but - my boyfriend always tells me that I'd still be good even if I don't cram and that I should get used to doing first things first. So, I'm really gonna TRY my very best to not cram anymore. TRY:) :D But whowho, I said LESSEN naman e. hehe :p

4. BE SWEETER TO MY BABYBOO. Hehe. Funny as it may seem, I never imagined ever calling anyone Babe, Baby, or worse - Babyboo. But I do! Anyways I'll elaborate on explain that some other time. I know and a lot of people know that I am by far one of the sweetest earthlings ever and any guy I'd end up with would be hella lucky. HEHE (mas lucky ako kung alam niyo lang:">) So yeah. Last year, was a BIT fired up with sweetness and shiz like surprises and random - surprises which was given enough time and effort to be made possible. And this time, this year, I've already started to plan things ahead and when it comes to surprises - NO CRAMMING. Because cramming it up with schoolwork just wont work! Haha. But yeah. This year will be filled with much more surprises. YAY :) So to you my everdearest future husband slash current boyfriend, BE REYDI :> :)

5. BE MORE UNDERSTANDING. And this goes for everyone. Even the people I don't know. I'll often try to understand people more and stuff. Which helps out with New Year's Resolution number 6 which is ..

6. ALWAYS PRACTICE PATIENCE. Now, if I become more understanding AND practice patience, I believe that's a step in becoming a much better me. :) A lighter feeling = a lighter heart. And later, that too will be expounded on NYR #9. :)

7. ALWAYS SPEAK MORE GENTLY AND LOVINGLY. (WATCH MY TONE). This is because, for me, when my temper goes WOOOOHPSIEDAISIES, goodbye sweet tone and voice and hello me you don't wanna hear. No - I aint tactless and the type you'd want to slap. But I am the type who when irritated - you too will get a piece of me. Mehehe~ but since I'm planning to have a better life this year, I will speak much more gently AND yes, lovingly. (somewhat a resolution I made in regards of how I am at home. huhu)

8. LESSEN THE LAZINESS. Get up and get some ass worked out. Stop laying around all day when you got no classes and no visit. HAHAHA~ coz usually, I'd be in bed ALL DAY LONG and I'd just get up to pee or eat breakfast, lunch or dinner. Yes, I don't shower coz I believe that no pawis or no oily head or face means you are clean. Yay :P Hahaha.

9. NOT HOLD GRUDGES. (FORGIVE) Because as far as I know, at home - I *used to* hate my eldest brother. Hoho~ and in school - I *used to* hate a blockmate. Maybe I'll blog about that some other time but I don't think that's necessary anymore since when it striked 1200am it's already Jan1, I promise to not hold anymore grudges. I don't even know if I could consider the relationship platonic - but I guess it's already less. I'd rather be indiferrent than hate. So as to say for my blockmate, yeah sure I may still make faces and laugh when some of my friends make a joke about you or so - but I've promised myself that if I got nothing nice to say about you, I wont say it. I'll just keep my mouth shut. But I've learned that if you really don't like me, then it's perfectly fine with me if we're just acquainted. Is this still holding grudges? I guess not. :) Maybe I'll explain next time why. :)

10. STUDY HARDER / ALWAYS ALWAYS DO MY BEST IN EVERYTHING. Point made. One year and a half to go for studying harder! LET'S GO! :) And got a whole life to go to do my best in everything. \m/

Breakfast is ready. Gotta go :) Ciao:*