How often must a person say I love you to another person? Is there such a thing as a suggested number of times a day that you should? Is there a limit of until when you should say that you love a person? Are there rules in saying I love you except by the fact that you should always and only say it if and when you meant it? Or are you free to choose so as when you should say it, how you should say it, how you express it and so much more?
I don't know the exact reasons why when it comes to my boyfriend and I ... we practically say I love you to each other ... must be a thousand times tops...? Or maybe that's just being exaggerated but it's like ... we say it so often ... we say it all the time!
Whether we're fighting or in extremely good terms with each other, we'd always end the phone call with an I love you. Begin and end the day with an I love you. Or simple stuff like when it's time for lunch the other would say, "Happy eating, Babe!:) I love you!:*" ;) And you probably already get the point.
I thought of blogging about this thought (say what again -__-) when I thought (ANODAW), I want to tally the number of times we'd actually say I love you to one another the entire day. But then, that would just be impossible for me to do coz now, it'd make me seem conscious about how many times I'd say it or so - which could and most definitely would make the results of my experiment - invalid or not that whatever. I don't know.
All I'm really saying is...YOU SAY I LOVE YOU WHENEVER YOU WANT TO. But you say it wholeheartedly and be ready to take in what's with saying it. You should know what love is all about, you should know that love is unconditionally given and sh*t - you should know that when you say it - you don't JUST FEEL LIKE saying it. You say it - you mean it. And if not, well I'm sorry to say this but that would just make you an ass.
You do not say I love you because you HAVE TO SAY IT or you feel like you HAVE TO SAY IT BACK. You do not say I love you just when you're happy with that person - you say I love you even when you're very very mad with that person. You say I love you not because you're scared that if you don't, you might lose a person but later on realize that you really didn't love a person or love a person back - you just said I love you to keep a person on his/her toes - be waiting on your hand and foot. You say I love you - simply because you do. And you say it when you know that no matter what happens - maubusan man ng balot and nagtitinda ng balot, mabasag man ng aksidente and bote ng suka na sawsawan sa may isawan, lumindol man habang tulog ka at di mo nanaman naramdaman, umulan tas wala kang dalang payong - you still will love him/her .. always, and forever.
Goodnight <3
Till my next love post:)
Ciaoooooo:)
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