"No fight can ever make me let go of you."

Someone once told me this: "No fight can ever make me let go of you."


And up to this day, it's something I always keep in mind.

No fight did ever make him let go if me. We just grew apart. And now, I'm in a new relationship. And just like any relationship, we have our ups and downs. And by the downside of every relationship, we have our fights.

I don't need to detail in any fight for any of you to understand. I think it's clear that we too have shortcomings and have misunderstandings.

I was never good with handling such. I back myself up by being strong. I've always been good at letting the public know that I'm okay. I can fake it with anyone - if I want to. But I never faked it with my boyfriend. I never faked being okay. As much as possible, I've always made sure to be as transparent as I could be with the people that matter a lot to me. So, if I'm not okay with anything, I let him know as soon as possible and don't hold any grudges against him. We talk things out, and sometimes the talking turns to fighting. But it's okay to fight as long as at the end of the day, you know who you still wanna be with ... and you know how important every second with him should be like - meaning ... you know you wanna fix things ... and you WILL fix things before the day ends. Or, if you wanna sleep things over, don't sleep without letting him know that you love him ... and will still do in the morning. That ... you're just sleeping to cool your head off and in the morning, still talk things through. You should make it clear that you were mad at what he did or what he said or what he didn't do or didn't say and not at him. Do you get me? Be mad at what the person did - not at the person. But then maybe that's already clear.

After all these said, I just wanna let him know that ... no fight could ever make me let go of him.

No fight could ever make me let go of you, Babe. We may have our ups and downs ... but I seriously swear ... I seriously pinkyswear ... that I doubt I'd even grow tired of you or of us. No matter what happens ... you're still the one ... you're still the only one I could ever picture my future with. Okay? :') I love you. And, I'm sorry.

Remember, no pride is ever worth keeping if it means losing the person you love the most. You don't have to be the person who has wronged the other - to be the first to let your guard down.